The L-Word, Lowering Your Standards, and Confronting a Lying Partner (Smosh Advice) - SmoshCast #72
[00:03 - 00:32]"I love you" is a nice thing to say, but it's not a proposal
[00:34 - 01:50]The group discusses Batman movies and a popular TV show
[01:57 - 02:59]The three hosts introduce themselves as Ian Hecox, Courtney Mealar, and Sara Wiedo
[02:02 - 04:41]They wrap up the video by introducing themselves and summarizing their advice.
[02:22 - 04:02]The group discusses cultural differences in dating practices
[02:36 - 03:57]No one is perfect and relationships require work
[03:19 - 04:16]The speaker can be judgmental, but her friends agree
[04:16 - 04:36]No one is perfect and relationships require work
[04:41 - 05:54]The speaker can be judgmental, but her friends agree
[04:49 - 05:08]They wrap up the video by introducing themselves and summarizing their advice.
[05:13 - 05:47]They will give relationship advice based on their own experiences, not as professionals
[05:54 - 06:28]The first question is about managing social anxiety and fear of judgment while dating
[06:28 - 07:08]They suggest taking things slow and going on group dates to lessen pressure
[07:08 - 08:03]It's important to be confident in yourself and your interests
[08:10 - 10:06]First impressions are important but not everything
[08:15 - 09:14]It's important to be confident in yourself and your interests
[09:46 - 11:09]A question was asked by Nerdy Ginger 101 about how to get over someone.
[09:55 - 10:40]They suggest being open to getting to know someone without immediate judgment.
[10:06 - 10:40]The group discusses cultural differences in dating practices
[11:09 - 13:28]They suggest understanding that it's possible to have strong feelings for someone who may not feel the same way.
[11:38 - 11:52]The speaker suggests normalizing the engagement stage as an exciting chapter rather than just a prelude to marriage.
[12:25 - 12:52]The speaker shares their own experience of being emotionally attached to someone in high school who didn't like them back.
[13:28 - 13:55]It's important to make peace with the positive memories and not let them hinder future relationships.
[13:56 - 16:06]The speaker advises not to have unrealistic expectations for the next relationship.
[14:02 - 14:18]The speaker relates to the question and shares their own experience of being attached to someone who didn't like them back.
[14:19 - 14:25]A question was asked by Nerdy Ginger 101 about how to get over someone.
[14:25 - 14:44]The speaker shares their own experience of being emotionally attached to someone in high school who didn't like them back.
[14:45 - 14:50]The speaker suggests normalizing the engagement stage as an exciting chapter rather than just a prelude to marriage.
[14:50 - 15:21]The speaker advises not to have unrealistic expectations for the next relationship.
[15:21 - 16:41]It's important to be open and for both sides to work towards a relationship.
[15:27 - 15:35]The speaker advises not to have unrealistic expectations for the next relationship.
[15:35 - 16:00]The speaker advises not to have a strict checklist for potential suitors.
[16:07 - 16:16]They suggest being open to getting to know someone without immediate judgment.
[16:42 - 17:05]The speaker advises not to have unrealistic expectations for the next relationship.
[17:06 - 20:25]The speaker shares their own experience of dating someone who didn't fit their checklist but had similar values and morals.
[17:58 - 19:53]The speaker shares their own experience of being emotionally attached to someone in high school who didn't like them back.
[18:28 - 18:33]They suggest being open to changing expectations and being flexible.
[18:39 - 19:26]The speaker shares their own experience of dating someone who didn't fit their checklist but had similar values and morals.
[19:32 - 21:22]They suggest being open to getting to know someone without immediate judgment.
[21:22 - 22:13]The speaker suggests normalizing the engagement stage as an exciting chapter rather than just a prelude to marriage.
[21:22 - 23:23]A friend had to change their wedding plans due to the pandemic, but still had a meaningful ceremony with a Zoom call for guests.
[21:34 - 22:33]They discuss the joys of being engaged and using the word "fiance."
[23:23 - 25:15]The speaker shares their experience of their own wedding day being stressful due to coordinating family and friends in a foreign country.
[24:30 - 24:50]The speaker had a long engagement and enjoyed it, despite societal pressure for a big wedding.
[25:47 - 27:16]They want to do something romantic to make the wait worth it.
[26:07 - 26:47]The speaker had a long engagement and enjoyed it, despite societal pressure for a big wedding.
[27:05 - 29:09]Next, the speaker discusses the importance of being sure before saying "I love you" and not expecting the other person to say it back.
[27:23 - 27:30]The next question is about dating a friend and if the relationship will change.
[27:48 - 30:14]Next, the speaker discusses the importance of being sure before saying "I love you" and not expecting the other person to say it back.
[28:15 - 28:29]They share a personal story of accidentally saying "I love you" to a friend they were dating, but ultimately staying friends after it didn't work out.
[28:42 - 30:33]Next, the speaker discusses the importance of being sure before saying "I love you" and not expecting the other person to say it back.
[29:09 - 29:40]They share a personal story of accidentally saying "I love you" to a friend they were dating, but ultimately staying friends after it didn't work out.
[29:56 - 30:01]They also share a story of a friend who dated a friend and it worked out.
[30:21 - 34:44]The next question is about dating a friend and if the relationship will change.
[30:34 - 30:45]The speakers share their experience of dating a friend and it not working out, but still remaining friends.
[30:46 - 32:02]They share a personal story of accidentally saying "I love you" to a friend they were dating, but ultimately staying friends after it didn't work out.
[32:13 - 32:18]They discuss the joys of being engaged and using the word "fiance."
[32:54 - 35:31]They also share a story of a friend who dated a friend and it worked out.
[33:38 - 34:32]The important thing is communication and being honest with yourself and each other.
[34:12 - 34:19]They want to do something romantic to make the wait worth it.
[34:33 - 35:24]The speaker shares a personal story of finding someone else's underwear in their boyfriend's apartment and confronting them about it.
[35:31 - 37:54]Communication is important in a relationship, and confronting uncomfortable issues can lead to growth and improved communication.
[36:20 - 37:45]They suggest paying attention to how a significant other reacts in confronting situations, as it can be a sign of their character.
[37:54 - 40:36]During COVID, virtual dates and socially distanced outdoor activities can still be options for dating.
[39:49 - 40:25]Communication is important in a relationship, and confronting uncomfortable issues can lead to growth and improved communication.
[40:36 - 44:08]The speaker is pansexual and believes there are many potential partners, rather than just one "perfect" person.
[42:50 - 43:35]They suggest being open-minded and learning about what qualities you find attractive in a person.
[44:08 - 46:12]Being open-minded and not limiting yourself to a specific "soulmate" can lead to finding a fulfilling relationship.
[45:24 - 47:20]The speaker is pansexual and believes there are many potential partners, rather than just one "perfect" person.
[45:51 - 46:57]Being open-minded and not limiting yourself to a specific "soulmate" can lead to finding a fulfilling relationship.
[46:57 - 48:40]Marriage is a journey and requires constant growth and communication between partners.
[48:41 - 49:45]Being open-minded and not limiting yourself to a specific "soulmate" can lead to finding a fulfilling relationship.
[48:49 - 50:32]They suggest paying attention to how a significant other reacts in confronting situations, as it can be a sign of their character.
[49:13 - 49:32]The speaker is pansexual and believes there are many potential partners, rather than just one "perfect" person.
[50:08 - 51:18]Discussion about relationships and how people react during times of mourning
[50:32 - 50:55]Lightning round: answering questions from fans
[51:18 - 52:20]Tips for safely navigating dating apps, including not going on a date if you feel unsafe and staying in public places
[52:05 - 55:06]Discussion on meat cutes and the importance of being open to new experiences
[53:38 - 54:02]Anecdote about getting lost while driving to a baby shower and accidentally insulting the person who wrote the directions
[54:44 - 55:54]Debate on the necessity of dating if one is happy with their close friends
[55:54 - 59:07]Anecdote about getting lost while driving to a baby shower and accidentally insulting the person who wrote the directions
[58:38 - 1.00:43]Conclusion: submit "shoot dudes" (funny dating stories) to the podcast and rate it five stars.