How To Make The First Move & Not Be A Creep (Smosh Advice) - SmoshCast #19
[00:02 - 00:41]The speaker shares their own experience with making the first move
[00:42 - 01:34]They give advice to a listener who has a crush on someone in their college class
[01:34 - 04:51]The speaker and their friends are discussing a potential romantic situation
[04:51 - 06:23]They give advice to a listener who has a crush on someone in their college class
[04:57 - 05:44]They discuss the importance of being honest and going for what you want
[05:04 - 05:57]The speaker and their friends are discussing a potential romantic situation
[06:37 - 09:30]They give advice to a listener who has a crush on someone in their college class
[07:05 - 08:42]They suggest the listener should go for it and not overthink the situation.
[08:53 - 11:11]They mention the use of alcohol in social situations and the importance of being sober
[09:58 - 12:48]The speaker and their friends are discussing a potential romantic situation
[12:19 - 13:31]They stress the importance of not wasting time on someone who is a bad kisser and suggests getting it over with.
[13:04 - 15:41]They suggest expressing feelings before summer break in order to have time to either move on or explore the relationship further.
[15:42 - 16:51]The speaker shares their struggles with motivation and suggests seeking professional help if needed.
[16:51 - 19:26]The final question is about how the speaker stays motivated, but the discussion turns to the importance of self-care and seeking help if needed.
[18:15 - 20:02]The speaker shares their struggles with motivation and suggests seeking professional help if needed.
[19:26 - 20:51]They move on to discussing how to stay motivated and suggest setting achievable goals and making physical lists.
[20:02 - 21:53]The speaker shares their struggles with motivation and suggests seeking professional help if needed.
[20:11 - 23:15]The speaker acknowledges the fear of rejection, but encourages the listener to take a chance.
[22:15 - 24:05]They move on to discussing how to stay motivated and suggest setting achievable goals and making physical lists.
[23:16 - 23:59]The speaker mentions the potential challenges of starting a long-distance relationship.
[24:05 - 25:44]The speaker shares their struggles with motivation and suggests seeking professional help if needed.
[24:17 - 25:36]The importance of understanding the purpose and value of tasks is emphasized.
[25:44 - 27:00]The speaker shares their struggles with motivation and suggests seeking professional help if needed.
[26:27 - 27:19]They jokingly mention alcohol and drugs as potential motivators, but do not promote their use.
[27:20 - 28:48]Cuter Miller is having a hard time saying no to dates, even if she doesn't like the guy, and ends up getting heartbroken when they break up.
[27:52 - 31:56]It is also important to be direct and definitive in the rejection, rather than using excuses like "not ready" which can lead to confusion and hurt feelings.
[30:26 - 32:26]There is a risk of violence or outbursts, so it is important to prioritize personal safety and potentially take a break from the friendship if necessary.
[31:07 - 31:47]When breaking up with someone, it is normal to feel empathy and sadness for hurting the other person, but it is necessary for both parties to move on and find happiness.
[32:11 - 38:02]It is also important to be direct and definitive in the rejection, rather than using excuses like "not ready" which can lead to confusion and hurt feelings.
[36:10 - 38:50]Cuter Miller is having a hard time saying no to dates, even if she doesn't like the guy, and ends up getting heartbroken when they break up.
[36:24 - 36:58]It is also important to be direct and definitive in the rejection, rather than using excuses like "not ready" which can lead to confusion and hurt feelings.
[37:35 - 38:23]It is important to be selfish and prioritize one's own feelings and well-being when rejecting someone.
[38:23 - 40:09]When breaking up with someone, it is normal to feel empathy and sadness for hurting the other person, but it is necessary for both parties to move on and find happiness.
[39:49 - 40:46]The speaker is talking about living another day and being glad about it
[40:10 - 40:46]It is also important to remember that a relationship should bring happiness to both parties, and if one person is not feeling it, it is better to let go and move on.
[40:18 - 41:04]They mention doing something for fun and not feeling obligated to do it
[40:46 - 40:58]Cuter Miller is having a hard time saying no to dates, even if she doesn't like the guy, and ends up getting heartbroken when they break up.
[41:05 - 41:39]They discuss the various features and options available on Wix for creating a website
[42:00 - 42:13]The speaker introduces a sponsor for the podcast, Wix.com, and talks about their website-building services
[42:13 - 44:38]They discuss the fear of going to therapy and finding the right therapist
[42:26 - 43:34]The speaker mentions a Twitter user, Nat, who sends them daily videos encouraging them to go to therapy
[43:35 - 43:54]They mention the fear of the unknown and making phone calls to schedule appointments
[44:26 - 44:31]They discuss the fear of going to therapy and finding the right therapist
[44:38 - 45:07]The speaker ends with another joke and introduces the next question from another listener.
[44:44 - 45:48]Two people are discussing how to dispose of a body and are joking about it
[45:08 - 45:30]The speaker is talking about living another day and being glad about it
[45:30 - 46:02]The speaker jokes about going to their therapist's house once they get their degree
[45:30 - 47:02]They disagree on whether it is appropriate to meddle in their friends' relationship
[46:03 - 46:45]They mention the fear of the unknown and making phone calls to schedule appointments
[46:45 - 47:38]The speaker shares their mantra of "detach from outcome" and replacing "should" with "want"
[47:02 - 47:54]They discuss the small things they have learned in therapy that have had a big impact
[47:02 - 47:54]They discuss a listener's question about whether they should intervene in their friends' potential romantic relationship
[47:54 - 48:31]They mention a question from a listener about overcoming the fear of going to therapy
[47:54 - 48:31]They also give advice on confessing to a murder
[48:17 - 48:24]The speaker shares their mantra of "detach from outcome" and replacing "should" with "want"
[48:32 - 50:39]Two people are discussing how to dispose of a body and are joking about it
[49:18 - 49:38]They also mention a past experience where someone tried to force them to kiss each other
[51:20 - 52:32]They discuss different ways to hide the body, including using a realistic mask and driving to a forest in Oregon
[51:44 - 53:41]They also mention hiding the body in a statue or at Disneyland
[51:51 - 53:29]Two people are discussing how to dispose of a body and are joking about it
[53:41 - 56:55]They also give advice on confessing to a murder
[55:27 - 57:35]They also mention hiding the body in a statue or at Disneyland
[56:35 - 59:09]They advise the listener to talk to their friends individually and let them know that the other person also likes them.
[57:36 - 59:36]They also mention a past experience where someone tried to force them to kiss each other
[58:45 - 59:09]The speaker discusses insecurities and how to learn to accept and love them.
[59:10 - 59:48]The topic of plastic surgery and its effects on individuality is brought up.
[59:49 - 1.00:47]They mention how imperfections make people unique and special.
[59:56 - 1.02:24]The speaker shares their own insecurities, specifically about their pupil, and how they have learned to embrace it.
[1.00:21 - 1.00:28]They mention how imperfections make people unique and special.
[1.00:48 - 1.02:30]They also mention how embracing flaws can inspire others to do the same.
[1.02:31 - 1.03:10]The speaker encourages people to find someone who loves them for who they are, including their insecurities.
[1.03:10 - 1.03:16]The importance of not criticizing others for things they can't change is emphasized.
[1.03:16 - 1.04:53]They talk about how insecurities can lead to strength and humbleness.
[1.04:22 - 1.04:46]They share personal experiences with being insecure about their height and how it led to overcompensating.
[1.05:23 - 1.06:14]The speaker gives examples of characters from movies and TV shows who are flawed but still loved by audiences.
[1.06:22 - 1.06:48]They also mention how embracing flaws can inspire others to do the same.
[1.06:28 - 1.06:42]They talk about how insecurities can prevent someone from being their true self, using examples from Game of Thrones and Harry Potter.
[1.06:48 - 1.07:14]The speaker encourages people to find someone who loves them for who they are, including their insecurities.
[1.07:14 - 1.08:09]They also mention how embracing flaws can inspire others to do the same.
[1.07:22 - 1.07:52]The speaker shares their own insecurities, specifically about their pupil, and how they have learned to embrace it.
[1.08:10 - 1.08:36]They talk about how insecurities can prevent someone from being their true self, using examples from Game of Thrones and Harry Potter.
[1.08:37 - 1.09:40]The speaker shares their own insecurities, specifically about their pupil, and how they have learned to embrace it.
[1.08:49 - 1.10:13]The speaker encourages focusing on what is interesting about other people, which can make social interactions less intimidating.
[1.10:31 - 1.12:02]The topic of pushing oneself out of their comfort zone is brought up.
[1.10:38 - 1.11:34]The speaker encourages focusing on what is interesting about other people, which can make social interactions less intimidating.
[1.11:14 - 1.12:08]The topic of pushing oneself out of their comfort zone is brought up.
[1.11:34 - 1.12:27]The speaker encourages focusing on what is interesting about other people, which can make social interactions less intimidating.
[1.11:49 - 1.12:34]Conversation between Shane and Courtney about making money without a job
[1.12:34 - 1.13:28]Shane's suggestion: Live in a giant walnut, carve a house inside, and search for ores to make armor to sell in a nearby village
[1.13:29 - 1.13:42]Mention of Cole's involvement in Smosh sketches
[1.13:42 - 1.14:21]Discussion about how to sell feet picks and reference to a YouTube video by Sarah Shower
[1.14:22 - 1.15:11]Jokes about Cole's feet and how pale they are
[1.14:42 - 1.14:48]Closing remarks and jokes about hitting the "whoa" dance move
[1.15:11 - 1.15:53]Conversation between Shane and Courtney about making money without a job
[1.15:53 - 1.16:25]Shane's suggestion: Live in a giant walnut, carve a house inside, and search for ores to make armor to sell in a nearby village
[1.16:25 - 1.16:59]Discussion about Cole's podcast and their concept of setting up a podcast stand outside
[1.16:33 - 1.17:05]Conversation between Shane and Courtney about making money without a job
[1.17:06 - 1.17:19]Mention of Cole's involvement in Smosh sketches
[1.17:20 - 1.18:02]Promotion of new Smosh merch, including a tender for hot dogs shirt and rainbow hoodie
[1.18:02 - 1.18:42]Reminder to subscribe to the podcast on Wednesdays and watch the censored version on YouTube on Fridays
[1.18:43 - 1.19:21]Closing remarks and jokes about hitting the "whoa" dance move