[00:45 - 00:50] Audio is a conversation between three people discussing potential advice-seeking questions

[01:29 - 01:35]They receive a question about how to survive karaoke night when unable to sing

[01:55 - 02:01]They suggest drinking alcohol to gain confidence and have fun

[03:08 - 03:20]They also suggest choosing popular songs that everyone knows for a more enjoyable experience

[03:51 - 03:58]They share their personal experiences with karaoke, including singing with a professional singer

[00:00 - 07:13]Overall, the audio is a lighthearted and humorous discussion about giving bad life advice for fun.

[07:14 - 07:20]The speaker discusses the need for social lubrication in social situations.

[07:46 - 07:55]The speaker and their co-host discuss their experiences with bullies and how they dealt with them.

[07:55 - 08:01]They mention that they punched a bully in the face during school and that it worked.

[09:24 - 09:35]They share personal stories of confronting bullies and how it ultimately stopped them from being targeted.

[09:35 - 09:41]The speaker's advice is to initially ignore the bully, but if they continue to bother you, it is okay to fight back.

[09:35 - 09:41]The speaker concludes that fighting back can be an effective way to deal with bullies.

[10:16 - 10:22]The speaker's father gave them permission to fight back against bullies.

[13:56 - 14:02]Other bullies then tried to pick fights with the speaker, but they were aggressive and successfully defended themselves.

[07:14 - 14:02]The speaker shares their experiences with bullies and discusses the effectiveness of fighting back against them.

[14:02 - 14:09]The speaker describes themselves as having been like a wild animal with blind rage as a child

[14:09 - 14:16]Blind rage is defined as losing control and becoming violent in the face of provocation

[14:16 - 14:22]The speaker shares a few specific instances where they lost control and physically fought someone

[20:02 - 20:13]They also mention feeling bad about the violence afterwards and learning valuable lessons from these experiences

[20:14 - 20:21]The speaker believes that being punched in the face can be humbling and can prevent someone from becoming an aggressive adult

[14:02 - 20:33]Overall, the speaker believes that fighting should be a last resort and that it is important to try other methods of dealing with bullies before resorting to violence.

[21:21 - 21:26]Person is discussing why they think kids fight more than adults

[21:26 - 21:34]Kids are able to handle physical altercations better than adults

[21:26 - 21:34]Falling to the ground hurts less as a kid due to less body mass and shorter distance

[21:26 - 21:34]Getting into a fight as a kid is generally not as serious as getting into a fight as an adult

[22:12 - 22:21]The person shares their experience with bullies and how standing up to them stopped the bullying

[22:35 - 22:40]The person advises to physically fight back against bullies

[23:15 - 23:20]It was easier to manage finances when they were younger and had fewer expenses

[25:08 - 25:24]The person discusses the difficulty of paying bills and managing finances as an adult

[25:35 - 25:41]The person shares their experience with filing taxes and seeking advice from an accountant

[27:12 - 27:18]The person learned how to file taxes through guides and their mother's teaching

[20:34 - 27:18]Person discusses the differences between kids and adults fighting, shares their experience with bullies and gives advice on dealing with them, and talks about the difficulties of managing finances and filing taxes as an adult.

[31:35 - 31:41] The speakers discuss their lack of knowledge on taxes and expenses, and how they were unprepared for dealing with them.

[32:10 - 32:16]One speaker almost misses the deadline for filing their tax return due to not understanding what it is.

[32:26 - 32:36]The speakers discuss the consequences of not paying taxes, including potential jail time.

[32:42 - 32:48]They mention using spreadsheets to track expenses and feeling in control of their money, despite not having a lot of it.

[32:42 - 32:48]They talk about the importance of getting an accountant to help with taxes, especially for those who are self-employed.

[32:42 - 32:48]Many YouTubers have been audited or faced consequences for not properly paying taxes on their income.

[32:48 - 32:57]They mention the need for more education on taxes, especially in schools.

[33:32 - 33:50]Mortgages are briefly discussed, with the definition being a loan for buying a house that is paid back with interest.

[33:32 - 33:50]The government has laws in place to ensure mortgages are generally affordable for everyone, but this is not always the case.

[33:50 - 33:55]There are urban legends about getting money back from the government through a tax return, but this is not always the case.

[27:18 - 34:01]The speakers discuss their lack of knowledge on taxes and expenses, the importance of getting an accountant, potential consequences for not paying taxes, and briefly touch on mortgages. They also mention the need for more education on taxes.

[34:09 - 34:16]Loan interest rates can vary greatly depending on individual or business status

[34:50 - 34:56]Understanding financial terms and concepts can be difficult

[36:07 - 36:13]Some people on TikTok give fraudulent financial advice

[37:53 - 38:05]Many Americans get their financial advice from TikTok, which can be dangerous

[39:56 - 40:10]Loans and credit cards can be intimidating and overwhelming for some

[40:10 - 40:20]Some people have a lack of financial responsibility and may make impulsive decisions

[40:57 - 41:04]It's important to think about the consequences of spending and to be responsible with money

[41:05 - 41:11]It's important to consult a professional for financial tips rather than relying on TikTok

[41:05 - 41:11]Paying off credit card debt and seeking professional financial advice are important steps to financial stability

[41:35 - 41:44]It's possible to be in a toxic relationship without realizing it

[34:01 - 41:44]Understanding financial concepts, consulting a professional for advice, and being responsible with money are all important for financial stability. Additionally, it's important to be aware of the signs of a toxic relationship.

[41:53 - 41:58]Person has been in a toxic relationship

[41:59 - 42:04]They didn't realize it at first, but slowly became aware

[44:10 - 44:19]They were isolated from friends and made to feel responsible for the relationship's problems

[45:38 - 45:45]They had a breaking point and realized they needed to get out

[47:38 - 47:44]Advice: communicate, respect, and ask for help if needed

[47:44 - 47:56]Communication is key in any relationship

[47:57 - 48:08]If you love someone, you should be able to talk about anything

[48:08 - 48:13]Mutual respect and understanding is important

[48:14 - 48:25]Don't be afraid to ask a friend if they're doing okay in a toxic relationship

[48:51 - 48:58]How to deal with a racist uncle at Christmas?

[49:11 - 49:18]Do any of the people at the table have a racist uncle?

[41:45 - 49:25]Person shares their experience in a toxic relationship and gives advice on communication and seeking help, then the topic shifts to dealing with a racist uncle at Christmas and asking if anyone at the table has experienced this.

[49:25 - 49:31]He shouldn't be into something like, like, especially on on my side and Sydney side as well.

[49:32 - 49:39]We got like 30 young.

[49:32 - 49:39]I've got like 30 uncles, right?

[49:32 - 49:39]I've found to be a stranger.

[49:32 - 49:39]I've got a fucking huge family on both sides.

[49:40 - 49:46]Not necessarily racist, but they will say some out-of-pocket things a lot of the times.

[49:48 - 49:54]Uncle, what's up?

[49:48 - 49:54]You're not going to change their life in one Christmas dinner.

[49:54 - 50:00]Uncle, we disagree, shut the fuck up. Let's have our Christmas meal.

[50:13 - 50:33]How do you deal with that?

[50:34 - 50:42]The same way I deal with anyone who says something out-of-pocket.

[51:11 - 51:21]You're not going to change your art.

[52:44 - 52:56]I am curious about why they think that.

[52:56 - 53:03]I just live having conversations.

[53:19 - 53:25]Let's change the subject.

[54:13 - 54:20]Why the fuck do you think that?

[54:43 - 54:48]You know, like, that's just that.

[55:45 - 55:54]How do you stay motivated?

[55:54 - 56:00]You can tell sometimes.

[55:54 - 56:00]It's so tough.

[56:40 - 56:46]Sometimes when people cannot get their mind changed.

[56:40 - 56:46]Nobody happens on motivation.

[56:40 - 56:46]Nobody has motivation.

[56:55 - 57:00]Sometimes you dig a little deeper.

[56:55 - 57:00]We have goals.

[56:55 - 57:00]We have aspirations.

[56:55 - 57:00]You're competing against other people that have motivation.

[56:55 - 57:00]It's a lie.

[56:55 - 57:00]You can become addicted to different facets of life.

[56:55 - 57:00]I want to be able to grow and support others.

[56:55 - 57:00]I have a lot for you to do.

[56:55 - 57:00]I just like the idea of being able to grow and support people around me.

[56:55 - 57:00]I'm horrifically addicted to making stuff.

[56:55 - 57:00]How do you ensure that you get to success in whatever you do?

[56:55 - 57:00]How do you ensure that you get to success in whatever you do?

[56:55 - 57:00]How do you ensure that you get to success in whatever you do?

[56:55 - 57:00]How do you ensure that you get to success in whatever you do?

[56:55 - 57:00]How do you ensure that you get to success in whatever you do?

[56:55 - 57:00]How do you ensure that you get to success in whatever you do?

[56:55 - 57:00]How do you ensure that you get to success in whatever you do?

[49:25 - 57:00]The last bullet point should be a concise and comprehensive summary of all the previous points.

[1.00:00 - 1.00:05]Two individuals discuss their different perspectives on focusing on one project at a time or trying multiple things in life

[1.00:16 - 1.00:31]The other enjoys trying new things and has many projects in progress

[1.00:31 - 1.00:38]One believes in the slow progression and seeing the status bar increase day by day

[1.00:57 - 1.01:06]They both agree that it's important to prioritize and balance different aspects of life, such as passion and paying bills

[1.01:31 - 1.01:36]It's important to have backup plans and not put all your efforts into one thing that may not work out

[1.02:14 - 1.02:21]They mention the competitiveness and difficulty of the restaurant industry and their respect for those who are successful in it

[57:00 - 1.03:44]Two individuals discuss their perspectives on focusing on one project at a time or trying multiple things in life and the importance of balancing passion and practicality. They also mention the difficulties and competitiveness of the restaurant industry and their dream projects for retirement.

[1.03:52 - 1.04:02] The speakers discuss confessing to a crush, with one speaker advising to go for it and the other advising against it.

[1.04:54 - 1.04:59]One speaker shares their own experience of confessing to their crush in year eight, and it not going well.

[1.04:54 - 1.04:59]The other speaker shares their own experience of being confessed to by a girl in year eight, and it also not going well.

[1.07:43 - 1.07:54]They discuss the difficulties of confessing to someone as a teenager and how it can lead to embarrassment and bullying.

[1.08:57 - 1.09:02]The speakers also discuss the differences in confessing as an adult, with one advocating for cutting off contact with the person and the other advocating for confessing.

[1.10:44 - 1.10:50]One speaker shares their experience of having an older girlfriend in school, and it not working out.

[1.11:23 - 1.11:29]The speakers also briefly discuss going on a date in school and how it is different from going on a date as an adult.

[1.03:46 - 1.11:46]The speakers discuss their experiences with confessing to crushes and relationships in school, and the differences between confessing as a teenager and as an adult.

[1.11:46 - 1.11:51] The speaker's friend wanted to watch Twilight and they reluctantly went along.

[1.11:59 - 1.12:06]They did not enjoy the movie and it was a waste of time.

[1.12:23 - 1.12:29]They had a similar experience with another movie, possibly Borat or Bruno, on a first date.

[1.13:51 - 1.13:58]Their friend's mom bought them Bruno but didn't know what it was.

[1.15:24 - 1.15:29]The speaker's father was the first to tell them they were gaining weight.

[1.16:49 - 1.16:55]The speaker's perspective on weight and body image is influenced by their sporty family.

[1.17:17 - 1.17:35]They believe that weight gain is often a symptom of underlying issues, such as depression or boredom.

[1.17:17 - 1.17:35]They reflect on their own weight and body image and how it has changed over time.

[1.18:40 - 1.18:51]They mention the societal pressure to be thin in Japan.

[1.11:46 - 1.18:51]The speaker recounts their experiences with movies and first dates, as well as their views on weight and body image, influenced by their family and society.

[1.24:51 - 1.24:59]Discussion about body image and societal standards

[1.25:05 - 1.25:17]Difficulty with weight management

[1.25:05 - 1.25:17]Impact of travel on weight and health

[1.25:05 - 1.25:17]Importance of experimenting with fashion and having confidence in personal style

[1.25:18 - 1.25:27]Influence of friends on weight loss

[1.25:18 - 1.25:27]Getting help from friends with fashion choices

[1.25:18 - 1.25:27]Personal experiences with shopping and fashion

[1.25:18 - 1.25:27]Finding a style that works and sticking with it

[1.25:18 - 1.25:27]Importance of confidence in showcasing fashion

[1.25:18 - 1.25:27]The concept of "drip" and what it means

[1.18:51 - 1.25:27]Discussion on body image and societal standards, difficulty with weight management, impact of friends and travel on weight and health, importance of experimenting with fashion and having confidence in personal style, personal experiences with shopping and fashion, finding a style that works, and the concept of "drip" and self-confidence in fashion choices.

[1.25:27 - 1.25:38]The speakers discuss the importance of confidence in fashion choices.

[1.25:38 - 1.25:43]They mention a specific item, a trench coat, and how they don't feel confident enough to wear it.

[1.26:10 - 1.26:25]They discuss a service in Korea where people can book "drip experts" to help them with their fashion choices.

[1.29:33 - 1.29:44]They discuss the difficulty of accurately assessing someone's communication skills in a job interview.

[1.30:02 - 1.30:11]The speakers have experience with job interviews, both as interviewers and interviewees.

[1.30:02 - 1.30:11]The speakers share their personal experiences and opinions on what stands out in a job interview.

[1.30:22 - 1.30:34]They also mention the importance of being able to connect with the person on a personal level.

[1.31:30 - 1.31:40]One speaker mentions that having hobbies and interests outside of work is important.

[1.32:28 - 1.32:34]The speakers acknowledge that their experience may be different from traditional industries.

[1.25:27 - 1.33:00]In conclusion, they believe that it's important to get a sense of a person's personality and interests in a job interview, even in a technical field.

[1.33:01 - 1.33:36]Speaker discusses the importance of having a hobby or passion related to the industry or field one is applying for.

[1.34:15 - 1.34:23]Having a hobby or passion can make one stand out in a competitive job market and make them more personable.

[1.36:18 - 1.36:26]Showing genuine interest in the other person by asking questions is important in any relationship, whether platonic or romantic.

[1.37:35 - 1.37:44]Vibe checking and assessing the other person's expectations for splitting the bill is important.

[1.37:35 - 1.37:44]Speaker believes in being a gentleman and paying for the bill, but also values the other person's willingness to split.

[1.37:35 - 1.37:44]The speaker expects the other person to offer to split the bill on the second or third date.

[1.38:24 - 1.38:32]It is important to be financially responsible when going out on dates.

[1.38:49 - 1.39:02]The speaker's personal experience with paying for dates when they had no money.

[1.38:49 - 1.39:02]A system should be established for paying for dates.

[1.38:49 - 1.39:02]A system should be established for paying for dates.

[1.40:24 - 1.40:29]The speaker shares a personal anecdote about going on a date with no furniture.

[1.33:01 - 1.40:29]Having a hobby or passion related to the industry or field one is applying for can make one stand out in a competitive job market and make them more personable.

[1.40:30 - 1.40:38] The speaker talks about going on many dates while in Japan and spending too much money.

[1.40:45 - 1.40:54]In Japan, it is common to split the bill and be considerate of others.

[1.42:01 - 1.42:06]It is important to avoid discussing politics, religion, and prior relationships on a first date.

[1.42:58 - 1.43:07]The speaker debates whether to be themselves or tone down their personality on a first date.

[1.43:57 - 1.44:04]They prefer dinner dates for the opportunity to talk and get to know someone.

[1.44:26 - 1.44:36]The speaker has always had a natural connection with their significant others, so the idea of having to play a game on a first date is foreign to them.

[1.45:06 - 1.45:13]General vibe checks and being yourself are important on a first date.

[1.45:13 - 1.45:20]Dress nicely but not too formal.

[1.45:33 - 1.45:38]Enjoy the experience of getting to know someone, even if it doesn't work out.

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[1.40:30 - 1.46:56]In summary, the speaker talks about their experiences with dating and gives advice on what to do and what not to do on a first date, emphasizing the importance of being yourself and having fun while getting to know someone.