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[00:14 - 00:41]The speaker feels they are currently between two friend groups, one at work and one outside of work

[00:41 - 00:54]The speaker enjoys seeing people openly love each other

[01:10 - 02:09]The speaker shares a personal experience of being cut off by a friend for their new relationship

[01:17 - 01:51]Due to the pandemic, it is hard to make friends

[01:51 - 02:30]The speaker shares a personal experience of being cut off by a friend for their new relationship

[02:31 - 02:43]The speaker talks about a friend who cut them off due to a new relationship

[02:43 - 05:01]The group discusses the difficulty of knowing when to end a friendship

[03:10 - 04:12]The group introduces themselves and discusses their experiences with maintaining friendships

[03:40 - 04:28]The speaker is forgiving but also cuts people out of their life completely

[04:28 - 05:30]The speaker expresses their forgiveness but also their ability to cut people out of their life completely.

[05:30 - 07:45]The speaker feels they are currently between two friend groups, one at work and one outside of work

[05:37 - 07:34]They emphasize the importance of core values in maintaining friendships

[07:45 - 08:43]The speaker shares a personal experience of being cut off by a friend for their new relationship

[07:59 - 08:25]The speaker feels they are currently between two friend groups, one at work and one outside of work

[08:44 - 09:38]The group discusses the difficulty of knowing when to end a friendship

[09:25 - 10:54]The speaker talks about a friend who cut them off due to a new relationship

[10:16 - 12:05]The speaker is forgiving but also cuts people out of their life completely

[10:54 - 11:58]The speaker shares a personal experience of being cut off by a friend for their new relationship

[12:06 - 12:27]A friend is reflecting on the influence of different things in their life, including inner insecurity and relationships.

[12:27 - 13:03]They believe it takes a lot to stand in front of someone and apologize.

[12:42 - 13:16]They appreciate when someone apologizes to them and are receptive to rebuilding the relationship.

[13:16 - 13:33]They have had certain friendships come back around after allowing time to pass.

[13:33 - 14:28]They also acknowledge that there are some friends that you may not see often, but when you do, it's like no time has passed.

[14:00 - 14:34]They share a personal story about reconciling with a friend they had a falling out with.

[14:35 - 15:46]They believe that some fights are optional and that sometimes it's better to let growing apart happen.

[15:23 - 15:32]They also mention that it's okay for friendships to grow apart.

[15:32 - 16:46]They also mention that it's harder to make new friends as you get older.

[15:47 - 16:06]They end the conversation with a lighthearted comment about it being a "cut and dry" topic.

[16:07 - 16:14]They mention the use of FaceTime to stay in touch with long-distance friends.

[16:14 - 16:25]A friend is reflecting on the influence of different things in their life, including inner insecurity and relationships.

[16:25 - 17:11]Another person chimes in and talks about how they have been in a controlling relationship that made it hard to maintain friendships.

[17:11 - 17:36]They suggest trying to talk to the friend about the situation and coming from a place of love.

[17:39 - 18:15]They mention the use of FaceTime to stay in touch with long-distance friends.

[18:50 - 19:13]They also mention that it's okay for friendships to grow apart.

[19:13 - 19:33]They suggest trying to talk to the friend about the situation and coming from a place of love.

[19:34 - 20:22]Another person shares their perspective of being in a friendship where one person becomes a step-parent and needs space.

[20:22 - 21:13]They emphasize the importance of being secure in the friendship and understanding that it may look different at times.

[21:14 - 21:33]They also acknowledge that there are some friends that you may not see often, but when you do, it's like no time has passed.

[21:33 - 21:40]They mention the use of FaceTime to stay in touch with long-distance friends.

[21:40 - 21:57]The group agrees that it's important to be happy for your friends in their relationships and not feel threatened by it.

[21:57 - 22:03]Another person chimes in and talks about how they have been in a controlling relationship that made it hard to maintain friendships.

[22:03 - 22:09]They end the conversation with a lighthearted comment about it being a "cut and dry" topic.

[22:10 - 23:11]The speaker believes they may be the toxic one in their relationships

[22:16 - 22:39]The speaker's friends reassure them that they are not toxic, just afraid to open up

[22:48 - 24:03]They are afraid to show that they care

[23:11 - 24:19]The speaker believes they may be the toxic one in their relationships

[23:17 - 23:30]They agree that it involves taking and not giving in a relationship

[23:30 - 23:51]The speaker and their friends discuss the definition of toxic

[24:03 - 25:39]The speaker's friends reassure them that they are not toxic, just afraid to open up

[24:24 - 25:11]The speaker realizes they may have been toxic in the past and wants to change

[25:55 - 26:14]The speaker believes they may be the toxic one in their relationships

[26:28 - 27:06]They are afraid to show that they care

[27:06 - 27:42]The speaker's friends encourage them to express their love and not be afraid of rejection

[27:43 - 29:24]The speaker's love language is gift giving and quality time

[27:56 - 28:03]They discuss love languages and how they differ for each person

[28:03 - 29:46]The speaker's love language is gift giving and quality time

[29:24 - 30:09]The speaker's friends encourage them to express their love and not be afraid of rejection

[29:31 - 31:30]They enjoy giving affection but fear invading people's space

[30:38 - 31:06]The speaker's love language is gift giving and quality time

[31:30 - 32:49]They discuss the importance of communication and understanding in relationships

[32:49 - 33:40]The speaker's friends reassure them that they are not toxic, just afraid to open up

[32:58 - 33:40]The speaker discusses how they have trouble classifying people, especially when they do not share the same beliefs.

[33:03 - 33:23]The speaker acknowledges that their friend group has become smaller as they have gotten older.

[33:41 - 35:27]The speaker acknowledges having friends who hold racist beliefs, but they do not openly express them.

[33:52 - 33:57]The speaker acknowledges that their friend group has become smaller as they have gotten older.

[34:17 - 34:22]The speaker acknowledges having friends who hold racist beliefs, but they do not openly express them.

[34:23 - 36:24]The speaker mentions that sometimes it takes years to realize someone's true beliefs.

[34:29 - 34:48]They mention the importance of open conversations and not canceling or shutting out friends.

[35:04 - 36:11]They emphasize the importance of putting in the work to have open conversations and address issues within friendships.

[36:24 - 37:04]The speaker acknowledges that their friend group has become smaller as they have gotten older.

[37:04 - 37:57]The speaker mentions that sometimes it takes years to realize someone's true beliefs.

[37:25 - 39:59]The speaker shares a personal experience with a friend who admitted to being racist and how they initially thought the friend had changed but later found out they had not.

[37:57 - 38:15]The speaker acknowledges that their friend group has become smaller as they have gotten older.

[38:25 - 39:11]The speaker shares a personal experience with a friend who admitted to being racist and how they initially thought the friend had changed but later found out they had not.

[39:59 - 41:19]The speaker mentions that sometimes it takes years to realize someone's true beliefs.

[40:26 - 40:47]They discuss the importance of love and constructive language in addressing racism within friendships.

[41:19 - 42:25]The speaker acknowledges that their friend group has become smaller as they have gotten older.

[41:28 - 42:32]The speaker acknowledges having friends who hold racist beliefs, but they do not openly express them.

[42:32 - 43:57]The speaker advises not to be aggressive when addressing racist beliefs within friendships, as it can make the situation worse.

[42:46 - 44:11]They mention the importance of being aggressive in certain situations.

[43:17 - 43:51]The speaker talks about the importance of being passionate and making sacrifices in order to achieve one's goals.

[43:24 - 43:44]They talk about finding their tribe through their personal journey and valuing friends who not only care about each other but also care about the world.

[43:52 - 43:57]The speaker talks about being in between tribes currently and the difficulty of making friends as an adult.

[43:57 - 44:11]The speaker talks about the importance of being passionate and making sacrifices in order to achieve one's goals.

[44:12 - 44:46]The speaker relates to being the afterthought friend and feeling hurt when friendships don't continue or when people turn out to be different from who they thought.

[44:46 - 45:46]The speaker relates to being the "back burner friend" in high school and feeling like they were not good enough in friend groups.

[45:22 - 46:12]The speaker mentions changing and growing, and how it's important to always be changing.

[45:47 - 47:21]The speaker talks about being in between tribes currently and the difficulty of making friends as an adult.

[45:55 - 46:06]They give advice to their younger self to be patient and true to who they are, as their true friends will come eventually.

[46:25 - 46:50]They mention the importance of putting in effort and work to create friendships in adulthood.

[46:56 - 47:49]The speaker relates to being the afterthought friend and feeling hurt when friendships don't continue or when people turn out to be different from who they thought.

[47:50 - 49:14]They talk about finding their tribe through their personal journey and valuing friends who not only care about each other but also care about the world.

[49:14 - 51:58]They talk about the influence of their friends and how they have opened their eyes to new perspectives.

[51:23 - 53:16]The speaker mentions the effects of the pandemic on friendships and relationships.

[52:07 - 52:15]The speaker relates to being the afterthought friend and feeling hurt when friendships don't continue or when people turn out to be different from who they thought.

[52:15 - 53:09]They advise the person asking the question to put themselves out there and engage in activities, as well as to be a better friend.

[52:27 - 53:16]The speaker believes that doing things that make one feel good and alive will attract like-minded individuals.

[53:03 - 53:09]Being comfortable with oneself and knowing one's values and preferences is important in attracting positive energy.

[53:16 - 53:52]The speaker believes that doing things that make one feel good and alive will attract like-minded individuals.

[53:53 - 54:04]Examples of this include collecting beanie babies and having friends with similar interests.

[54:04 - 54:53]The speaker recalls having TY beanie babies and crying while discussing friendships.

[54:53 - 55:34]The group discusses different types of friends and what they are thankful for in their current friendships.

[55:34 - 56:54]The speaker admires the open display of love and positivity between friends.

[56:54 - 58:26]Another friend is praised for their strong words of affirmation and inspiring the speaker to see the "God" in themselves.

[57:14 - 59:04]The speaker admires the open display of love and positivity between friends.

[57:59 - 58:39]The speaker talks about the importance of honesty in friendships and gives a shout out to their boyfriend for teaching them how to be an honest friend.

[58:39 - 1.00:42]The speaker talks about a friend who stayed with them during a tough time and how they are always there for each other.

[59:04 - 1.00:01]The speaker expresses love and appreciation for their friends and the support they have received in their career.

[59:54 - 1.01:15]The speaker emphasizes the need for a safe space in friendships where one can be vulnerable and not have to constantly perform.

[1.00:51 - 1.01:38]The speaker talks about a friend who stayed with them during a tough time and how they are always there for each other.

[1.01:15 - 1.02:17]The speaker emphasizes the need for a safe space in friendships where one can be vulnerable and not have to constantly perform.

[1.01:38 - 1.01:51]They mention that their job has changed them and they no longer have many friends from their past.

[1.02:18 - 1.03:04]The speaker talks about a friend who stayed with them during a tough time and how they are always there for each other.

[1.03:04 - 1.04:00]They express gratitude for their friends and mention that they hope to have 50 more years of friendship with them.

[1.03:11 - 1.04:09]The speaker talks about a friend who stayed with them during a tough time and how they are always there for each other.

[1.04:11 - 1.04:41]They end the conversation by saying goodbye to each other.

[1.04:41 - 1.06:50]The conversation shifts to a listener's story about a missed opportunity with a potential love interest.

[1.06:50 - 1.06:58]The speaker and their friends discuss their plans for the day and mention wanting to get Hawaiian bread.