
How to NOT Flirt with a YouTuber | Trash Taste #37


[01:46 - 01:54] Three individuals discuss their recent health check-up results, which were graded like a school test.


[02:13 - 02:21]They joke about their grades and compare them to their Asian upbringing.


[04:36 - 04:42]One person received all A's, another received a B and C, and the last person received a C and B.


[05:24 - 05:30]They share their overall thoughts on the health check-up and its impact on their lifestyle choices.


[05:43 - 05:49]One person's liver was flagged as problematic, and they discuss the potential causes of the issue.


[05:49 - 05:56]They speculate about the accuracy and significance of the grades.


[00:00 - 06:05]Overall, three individuals share their health check-up results and discuss the implications on their health and habits.


[09:59 - 10:05]The speaker discusses their recent health checkup, expressing concern about their blood results and wanting to improve them.


[10:51 - 11:06]The speaker reflects on their competitiveness and drive to improve grades and test scores, comparing this to cultural differences between Asia and the Western world.


[11:06 - 11:15]They mention a past experience with getting a bee in their blood.


[11:51 - 11:57]The speaker jokes about potentially skewing their results due to holiday indulgences and questions the value placed on grades and test scores in Asian culture.


[11:51 - 11:57]They mention hearing about people getting bullied for receiving bad test results in Asia.


[11:51 - 11:57]The speaker ends by summarizing their thoughts on the pressure placed on test scores in Asian culture and their own personal experiences with it.


[12:10 - 12:17]They share their experience with the hearing and eyesight tests during the health checkup.


[06:05 - 12:17]The speaker discusses their recent health checkup and reflects on cultural differences in attitudes towards grades and test scores.


[12:17 - 12:26] Students publicly post their test results, creating pressure and competition among classmates


[12:26 - 12:34]This pressure and competition extends to university entrance exams


[12:34 - 12:41]Test results are publicly displayed on a billboard and failure to appear means failure


[12:41 - 12:56]Tests are highly valued in Japan, potentially skewing students' perceptions of success


[13:19 - 13:32]In the entertainment industry, social skills are more important than grades


[13:19 - 13:32]The speakers both had to learn social skills outside of school


[16:26 - 16:31]One speaker lived at home and felt different from those who lived on campus


[17:23 - 17:32]The other speaker lived far from campus but chose not to live in dorms


[17:32 - 17:47]University is seen as a last chance to improve social skills before entering society


[17:32 - 17:47]The speakers had different experiences with socializing in university


[17:32 - 17:47]Going to university taught the speakers valuable life skills more than career skills


[18:05 - 18:15]The speakers were disappointed to find that adults are not as mature as they expected


[12:17 - 19:10]University in Japan places high value on tests and grades, creating pressure and competition among students. In the entertainment industry, social skills are more important than grades, and the speakers had to learn these skills outside of school. University is seen as a chance to improve social skills before entering society, but the speakers had different experiences with socializing. Going to university taught them valuable life skills, and they were disappointed to find that adults are not as mature as they expected. Recent events, such as the Stonk market, have further highlighted this realization.


[19:11 - 19:18]The situation being discussed is constantly evolving and may be outdated by the time it airs.


[19:26 - 19:34]Real life events are more interesting than TV and documentaries are better than movies.


[19:34 - 19:40]The "Stonk market" and GameStop stock are mentioned.


[19:34 - 19:40]The story of Redditors buying GameStop stock is discussed.


[20:01 - 20:08]Memes are becoming more influential and have a real life effect on the world.


[22:09 - 22:18]The hosts' personal experiences and thoughts on the stock market are shared.


[23:24 - 23:33]The lack of financial education in schools is criticized.


[23:33 - 23:40]The hosts discuss the importance of financial management and taxes.


[23:33 - 23:40]They argue that school should prepare students for adult life, including financial responsibilities.


[23:33 - 23:40]The importance of financial knowledge in any career is emphasized.


[24:43 - 24:51]A final point is made about the hosts' lack of useful skills taught in school.


[25:04 - 25:14]The hosts reflect on their own experiences in school and question the usefulness of certain classes.


[19:11 - 25:43]Overall, the hosts believe that schools should prioritize teaching financial management and taxes in order to prepare students for adult life.


[25:44 - 25:49] The speaker forgets their point and goes back to the interviewer.


[25:49 - 26:01]They discuss important things in life, such as mortgages, and how the speaker has no knowledge on the topic.


[26:14 - 26:21]The speaker talks about how owning a house is a common goal in life, but no one is taught about it.


[26:21 - 26:27]They mention how the only time they have heard the word mortgage is in a Monopoly game.


[26:33 - 26:43]The speaker reveals they have minimal knowledge on mortgages and have not gone through the process of buying a house.


[27:30 - 27:38]They talk about seeking financial advice and having a privileged upbringing.


[31:44 - 31:55]The speaker mentions watching a YouTuber who gives basic financial advice for people of all income levels.


[32:12 - 32:19]The speaker reflects on their previous mindset that investing was only for rich people.


[32:19 - 32:31]They discuss the importance of investing, even with a small amount of income.


[32:31 - 32:39]They mention the risks and scams involved with investments.


[25:44 - 32:47]The speaker discusses their lack of knowledge about mortgages and financial stability, and mentions seeking advice from a YouTuber who gives basic advice for all income levels, including investing. They also reflect on their previous mindset that investing was only for rich people, and mention the risks and scams involved with investments.


[32:48 - 32:56]Discussion about the fear and difficulty of trusting someone with money


[33:06 - 33:11]Personal experiences with financial struggles and lack of guidance


[33:32 - 33:41]Comparison to being a cautious gamer in RPGs and real-time strategy games


[34:22 - 34:28]Realization of a mindset that prioritizes saving money over investing it


[35:35 - 35:43]Observations about the abundance of fake entrepreneurs and scams online


[36:47 - 37:02]Personal reflection on being in the entertainment industry and being able to spot fake content


[37:47 - 37:52]Speculation on the targeting of insecurities and desire for quick and easy solutions


[38:25 - 38:33]Examples of multi-level marketing scams and personal connections to them


[39:29 - 39:36]Sympathy for those looking for a way out of a dead-end job or lifestyle


[32:48 - 39:46]Discussion about the prevalence of scams and fake entrepreneurs online and the targeting of insecurities and desire for quick solutions, with personal experiences and reflections on the topic.


[39:46 - 39:58] Speaker discusses the importance of taking risks in order to succeed in life


[39:58 - 40:05]There are different types of risk-taking: responsible risk-taking and reckless risk-taking


[39:58 - 40:05]Reckless risk-taking is not a reliable way to become successful


[40:17 - 40:24]Success cannot be guaranteed by anyone, and if someone promises to make you successful, it's a red flag


[40:59 - 41:10]Speaker realizes that some of the financial advice given by their parents may not be applicable to their own circumstances


[43:27 - 43:36]Financial advisors often focus on long-term, safe investments rather than risky ones


[45:02 - 45:17]The speaker advises young people to do their own research and not rely on get-rich-quick schemes


[45:48 - 46:04]Learning Japanese to become a translator for the Yakuza is not a viable investment plan


[46:04 - 46:09]It's important to be cautious and not share potentially valuable ideas


[46:31 - 46:38]The speaker has a special surprise planned for the day


[39:46 - 46:38]Taking risks is important for success, but reckless risk-taking is not reliable. Success cannot be guaranteed and it's important to do research and not rely on get-rich-quick schemes. Financial advisors often focus on safe, long-term investments. Learning Japanese to become a Yakuza translator is not a viable investment plan.


[46:38 - 46:44]Speaker wrote a PowerPoint presentation a few weeks ago


[47:08 - 47:14]Presentation is about different ways people have hit on the speaker


[48:21 - 48:27]Speaker is not trying to come off as a "sex god"


[50:12 - 50:24]First instance of being hit on was through a text to their personal number


[51:15 - 51:20]Second instance was a handwritten letter sent to their PO box


[52:18 - 52:24]Third instance was an email from a fan


[52:45 - 52:51]Speaker also mentions having a Patreon where fans could pay to be pen pals


[52:51 - 52:58]This was overwhelming and eventually stopped offering it


[53:09 - 53:16]Speaker apologizes for their handwriting and not liking to write


[46:38 - 53:22]Speaker shares personal experiences of being hit on as a YouTuber and apologizes for any misunderstandings about their attractiveness.


[53:28 - 53:35] Author discusses frustrations with Patreon, including people joining and leaving after one month and lack of responses to personal letters


[55:20 - 55:26]Author had a fan who claimed they were dating and introduced them as their boyfriend, but never responded to messages


[55:47 - 55:53]Author also experienced a fan calling and making strange breathing sounds, which they later realized was them "nutting"


[55:53 - 56:03]Author and another person were doing a fan call as characters and the fan made inappropriate advances, which the author rejected in character


[57:09 - 57:14]Author had to cut ties with problematic fans, which was a difficult situation


[57:48 - 58:02]Author promotes a sponsor, an anime merch store, and discusses specific items available for purchase


[53:22 - 59:59]Author discusses various experiences with fans and frustrations with Patreon.


[59:59 - 1.00:05]The speaker talks about a fake bikini version of a popular character and encourages listeners to check out items on a website.


[1.02:51 - 1.03:00]They mention doing calls in character and how it was fun but also cringey at times.


[1.02:51 - 1.03:00]The speaker mentions doing calls for patrons, charging $100 per hour, and having uncomfortable calls with people.


[1.02:51 - 1.03:00]They talk about one particularly uncomfortable call where the person was naked and wearing body paint.


[1.02:51 - 1.03:00]The speaker mentions other uncomfortable situations that have arisen from the calls.


[1.04:35 - 1.04:48]They discuss how they would snarkily respond to inappropriate comments during the calls.


[1.04:49 - 1.04:55]The speaker has done calls for 2-3 years and charges $100 per hour for calls with patrons.


[1.05:25 - 1.05:31]They mention people using voice recordings to claim they are friends with the speaker.


[1.06:19 - 1.06:25]The speaker mentions that they never record anything inappropriate and are happy to give uplifting messages to those who need it.


[59:59 - 1.06:31]The speaker talks about their experiences doing character calls for patrons, including uncomfortable situations, and mentions that they have never recorded anything inappropriate.


[1.07:07 - 1.07:20] The speaker has experienced situations where people falsely claim to be friends with them for personal gain.


[1.07:20 - 1.07:28]The speaker has removed the ability for people to call them on Patreon due to these experiences.


[1.07:28 - 1.07:44]They have had to deal with people going around telling others that they know the speaker.


[1.07:28 - 1.07:44]They have also had someone try to use their name to get in with companies at a convention.


[1.08:41 - 1.08:47]These experiences trigger the speaker and they reflect on the audacity of people trying to use their name for personal gain.


[1.09:01 - 1.09:12]The speaker shares a story about a 15-year-old girl who approached them in a coffee shop and asked to sit down and have coffee with them.


[1.09:48 - 1.09:55]The speaker prefers people to approach them for photos or signatures rather than trying to befriend them.


[1.11:12 - 1.11:18]They also mention the importance of privacy, especially during meals.


[1.11:50 - 1.11:56]The stock images used for the podcast are related to previous stories shared by the speaker.


[1.12:22 - 1.12:30]The speaker has also had someone give them a hotel keycard and room number, which they immediately gave to the hotel reception.


[1.06:31 - 1.12:49]The speaker's experiences with people falsely claiming to be friends with them has led to them being cautious and protective of their name and privacy.


[1.12:50 - 1.13:04] The speaker tells a story about a hotel room encounter with two girls at midnight.


[1.14:14 - 1.14:19]The speaker is confused and asks why they are there, and the girl reveals she is a fan and wants a picture.


[1.14:25 - 1.14:31]They are approached by one girl in their hotel room doorway, blocking the door.


[1.14:31 - 1.14:38]The speaker is cautious about making sure they are not followed and is unsure how the person found their room.


[1.14:56 - 1.15:03]They also share a less creepy encounter with someone finding out their room number and wanting a picture.


[1.15:25 - 1.15:33]Later, the speaker attends a Black Butler meetup and meets a fan who is later revealed to have named their baby after them.


[1.17:42 - 1.17:55]The speaker is uncomfortable but takes a picture with the baby.


[1.18:25 - 1.18:32]The speaker reflects on their discomfort with handling babies.


[1.18:58 - 1.19:04]The encounter with the fan naming their baby after them is odd, but the speaker finds it flattering in a sense.


[1.12:50 - 1.19:04]The speaker shares two encounters with fans, one in a hotel room and one at a meetup, where they are approached and asked for pictures. In the second encounter, the fan reveals they named their baby after the speaker. The speaker is uncomfortable but takes a picture with the baby and reflects on their discomfort with handling babies. They find the encounter odd, but also flattering.


[1.19:04 - 1.19:10]Person feels flattered but also pressured when someone suggests naming a baby after them


[1.19:10 - 1.19:16]Naming a baby after an influencer is generally a bad idea


[1.19:18 - 1.19:26]Person found a video by typing in "C dog baby"


[1.19:26 - 1.19:34]Getting a tattoo of your favorite YouTuber's voice can be strange


[1.20:17 - 1.20:22]Person has received smooth pick-up attempts at conventions, but never responds due to living in Japan


[1.22:12 - 1.22:22]It's important for YouTubers to be conscious of their power and not take advantage of fans


[1.23:15 - 1.23:27]Friends who started as fans eventually stopped watching the person's videos and just became friends


[1.23:39 - 1.23:51]It's similar when friends become YouTubers, as they tend to watch each other's videos less


[1.24:06 - 1.24:15]Important rule for YouTubers: don't date/fuck your fans


[1.24:21 - 1.24:29]Person chose a picture of a Labrador with a gun as a fun addition to the project


[1.25:20 - 1.25:28]Person often receives comments from fans asking them on dates


[1.25:29 - 1.25:40]Some people ask subtle questions about long-distance relationships, but it's obvious what they're really asking


[1.19:04 - 1.25:40]Person discusses the pressures and potential pitfalls of being an influencer and interacting with fans, as well as the importance of not abusing their power. They also touch on the topic of dating fans and the awkwardness of receiving pick-up attempts from fans.


[1.25:41 - 1.25:49]Some people may ask questions out of curiosity, but others have a hidden agenda.


[1.25:49 - 1.26:04]One question she often gets is about the age group she dates.


[1.26:11 - 1.26:16]She jokes about dating older women and lonely housewives.


[1.26:29 - 1.26:38]People often ask if she would date someone who doesn't do YouTube.


[1.27:08 - 1.27:15]She doesn't want to date another YouTuber because of conflicting schedules.


[1.29:09 - 1.29:18]She has been hit on by a Fiverr seller offering a "great deal".


[1.30:50 - 1.30:56]Fan interactions can be weird, especially when they hit on you.


[1.31:20 - 1.31:27]She has been asked out for drinks in front of a panel.


[1.32:32 - 1.32:38]Mums are fun to talk to at anime conventions.


[1.25:41 - 1.32:38]The speaker has received strange questions and interactions due to their YouTube career.


[1.37:01 - 1.37:07] Conversation about interacting with parents at conventions and signings


[1.37:18 - 1.37:24]Story about a Thai mother expressing pride in seeing a Thai person representing at a convention


[1.37:18 - 1.37:24]Story about a Midwestern grandmother impressed by the use of cursive writing


[1.37:49 - 1.37:56]Story about being invited to a family dinner by a convention handler with 12 kids


[1.32:38 - 1.38:34]Overall, discussing experiences with parents at conventions and signings.


[1.38:34 - 1.38:43]Dad trying to talk to speaker, but kids only interested in YouTube


[1.38:43 - 1.38:48]Kids asking random questions (e.g. about taxes)


[1.39:48 - 1.39:54]Mom asks speaker out, speaker agrees thinking it's a joke


[1.40:42 - 1.40:48]Speaker jokingly responds, conversation turns serious


[1.41:54 - 1.42:02]Speaker stands mom up, awkward situation


[1.42:29 - 1.42:36]Speaker gets hit on while playing Overwatch


[1.44:04 - 1.44:09]Speaker has trouble deciding which words to use (British vs. American)


[1.44:33 - 1.44:38]Audience claps, Millie's clap is inaudible


[1.44:38 - 1.44:47]Lessons learned: speaker's fans are weird, older women are attracted to speaker, some people age better than others


[1.38:34 - 1.45:11]Speaker shares stories about being hit on by a mom and a fan while also discussing language differences and lessons learned from these experiences.


[1.45:23 - 1.45:32]The speaker discusses how some people age well, but it doesn't matter as long as they have the right mindset.


[1.45:39 - 1.45:51]They also talk about how some people stop caring about their appearance as they get older or think they can get away with unhealthy habits.


[1.47:30 - 1.47:38]They mention that their audience has become more male-dominated recently and attribute this to changes in their content.


[1.47:51 - 1.47:57]The speaker talks about their own experience of getting hit on by both men and women.


[1.48:58 - 1.49:09]The speaker advises small YouTubers to treat all fans the same and to be cautious about getting involved with fans romantically.


[1.50:27 - 1.50:36]They discuss the double standard between celebrities and influencers when it comes to dating fans.


[1.51:14 - 1.51:22]The speaker talks about the bond that forms between creators and their audience.


[1.45:11 - 1.51:22]The speaker discusses aging, getting hit on by fans, changes in their audience demographics, and the importance of treating all fans equally and avoiding romantic involvement with fans. They also mention the double standard between celebrities and influencers and the bond between creators and their audience.


[1.51:22 - 1.51:28]YouTube creates a sense of closeness between viewers and YouTubers


[1.51:28 - 1.51:35]YouTubers are more grounded and feel more real to their viewers


[1.51:35 - 1.51:46]Getting involved with fans should be done carefully


[1.51:47 - 1.51:53]Treat fans as friends and get to know them first


[1.51:53 - 1.52:04]Diffuse any power dynamic and be on equal footing with fans


[1.52:10 - 1.52:21]One-night stands and hookups with fans can be messy and not worth the risk


[1.52:45 - 1.52:52]Smaller YouTubers may not consider the consequences of getting involved with fans


[1.53:15 - 1.53:22]The rockstar lifestyle does not apply to YouTubers


[1.54:16 - 1.54:22]Meeting someone who likes you for you is a turn on


[1.55:34 - 1.55:45]Douchetubers who sleep with fans for clout should not be respected


[1.57:29 - 1.57:35]YouTube has taught the speaker to be more conscious of their actions and values


[1.57:29 - 1.57:35]Self-reflection and questioning values is a healthy part of YouTube


[1.57:29 - 1.57:35]The speaker has become a better person because of YouTube


[1.57:35 - 1.57:52]It is important to be seen as a person, not just a YouTuber


[1.57:35 - 1.57:52]It is important to consider how you would act and treat others if you were not a YouTuber


[1.57:35 - 1.57:52]The speaker believes that if they were not a YouTuber, they would still be a good person


[1.51:22 - 1.57:59]YouTube creates a sense of closeness between viewers and YouTubers, but getting involved with fans should be done carefully. It is important to treat fans as friends and diffuse any power dynamic. The rockstar lifestyle does not apply to YouTubers, and it is important to be seen as a person, not just a YouTuber. The speaker has become more conscious of their actions and values because of YouTube and believes that they would still be a good person without it. Douche tubers who sleep with fans for clout should not be respected.


[1.57:59 - 1.58:06]Participants discuss whether YouTubers can get away with controversial behavior on their channels due to their large audiences


[1.58:12 - 1.58:40]They also consider the impact of "apology videos" and the call-out culture on the platform


[1.59:53 - 2.00:07]Some express exhaustion and disinterest in getting involved in every scandal and drama on social media


[2.00:50 - 2.00:58]The conversation shifts to the concept of "hate-watching" and how it can contribute to a creator's success


[2.01:31 - 2.01:42]The hosts joke about wanting to participate in a boxing match for the entertainment value


[2.02:08 - 2.02:14]They reflect on the absurdity of real life being more entertaining than fiction


[2.02:54 - 2.02:59]The episode ends with a plug for their Patreon, social media, and reminder to not send nudes


[1.57:59 - 2.03:24]Overall, the conversation touches on the impact and implications of online drama and call-out culture on the YouTube community.